Name: Relationship Vulnerabilities - Bill Burr
Uploaded: 2022-05-11T16:15:02.000Z
Description: Watch the stand-up comedy video 'Relationship Vulnerabilities - Bill Burr' from Billy Twinkle Toes on Comedy Buff. Published 2022-05-11. Transcript available.

Watch the stand-up comedy video 'Relationship Vulnerabilities - Bill Burr' from Billy Twinkle Toes on Comedy Buff. Published 2022-05-11. Transcript available.

all right relationship vulnerability uh greetings from greece oh god i'm gonna
do a show there
someday i swear to god i am greetings from greece dear bill burr sorry in
advance but it gets sad
because it gets sad but i'm really troubled oh jesus some background i'm a 24
year old guy
who's been surrounded with funerals for the last seven years one of those funerals
was my best
friend uh who was murdered when i was 17 oh man sorry to hear that since then
and up until my 20s
i really struggled keeping a smile on my face or having any motivation in life
because of that i
lost many relationships and friends due to not being always emotionally
available or present as
days went i finally got up on my feet and started accepting our mortality at
least i thought so here's
my problem um i'm in a happy three-year relationship which had no issues lately
though things are
getting weird my depressive past is catching up on me as i didn't resolve the
sadness like i thought but
i had just closed the lid as a legend once said um yeah that doesn't work that
doesn't work you should
be uh all right i already think i know what my vice view is going to be you
know as a non-professional
um all right this with the combination of my girlfriend's sudden change of
routine she found
her first job where i don't see her that often really startled me i get these
huge waves of sadness
and loneliness accompanied with the insecurities i never had yeah probably her
suddenly leaving having
leave for work reminded you how your friend suddenly wasn't there anymore um
this is becoming an issue
since i'm really into communicating feelings slash problems with my lady but
this time it feels weird
i seem parentheses and am emotionally weak vulnerable and insecure literally
the top three things a woman
don't want you to be um
um yeah well that's the all that's the top three things the other person in the
conversation doesn't
want to deal with on a daily basis because it's a lot so and that's what you
have therapists for
is they can actually take that on and if you go into a therapist i think it eases
the tension in your
relationship because um you're talking to a professional so you start moving in
the right direction
and then when you talk to your significant other they know that you're working
on yourself and then
you're not just dumping your day on them which can be exhausting anyway um it's
not the first time i
experienced these feelings but i always could manage to put a happy face put on
a happy face and say
that everything is all right doesn't seem to be the case this time it's not a
job to fix me nor wait
for me i wasn't like this 99 of the relationship i was the happy funny dude who
she could always count on
now i just feel like a man child what do i do i've talked about it she tries to
understand and support me but i can't
stop having the
unavoidable feeling of
the pressure that if i don't get my shit straight fast i may lose her
um
thank you for making my car ride something to look forward to with your podcast
all the best to you and your family
can't wait for your next special
english is my third language sorry for any trouble it may cause you humble brag
um all right dude you speak three languages all right you're a funny dude you
got a great girlfriend
okay just go get some therapy and stop worrying about losing her all right if
she takes off that's her
fucking issue it's not your issue um and if she takes off that'll be sad you go
through that sadness
and eventually the right one comes along and they don't leave
all right and if she's the right one she won't leave but right now
if i was you just work on yourself and um
you know talk that shit out cry it out do whatever you gotta do
you know there's a lot of stuff out there about mushroom therapy
uh looking i've never done that but uh
you know
i've i've heard a lot of good things about that it's good for ptsd
and trying to work your shit out so you actually get to
live a happy life because
why should you be miserable
because of that horrible thing somebody else did to your friend
and that's the thing about when somebody does something like that it doesn't
just obviously affect the person
that they attacked it's it's the ripple effect
and it can literally affect how you are in a relationship how you're going to
be as a father and a husband
and then for generations people deal with these
these issues um it's sort of the the blowback
or whatever um of whatever happened so i hope you're able to work through that
shit
and as always go to a professional
not a fucking jerk off with the podcast but you know
i appreciate you writing it not that i was giving you shit all right
okay so don't don't fucking get down in the dumps because of what i just said
there all right jesus hope i didn't snip the wrong wire there at the end i feel
like it was in an action movie all right