Name: Bill Burr _ I Have No Life Motivation! [Advice]
Uploaded: 2022-06-16T17:56:11.000Z
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Watch the stand-up comedy video 'Bill Burr _ I Have No Life Motivation! [Advice]' from BURR'S FANDOM on Comedy Buff. Published 2022-06-16. Transcript available.

all right relationship vulnerability uh greetings from greece oh god i'm gonna
do a show there
someday i swear to god i am greetings from greece dear bill burr sorry in
advance but it gets sad
because it gets sad but i'm really troubled oh jesus some background i'm a 24
year old guy
who's been surrounded with funerals for the last seven years one of those funerals
was my best
friend uh who was murdered when i was 17 oh man sorry to hear that since then
and up until my 20s
i really struggled keeping a smile on my face or having any motivation in life
because of that i
lost many relationships and friends due to not being always emotionally
available or present
as days went i finally got up on my feet and started accepting our mortality at
least i thought so here's
my problem um i'm in a happy three-year relationship which had no issues lately
though things are getting
weird my depressive past is catching up on me as i didn't resolve the sadness
like i thought but
i had just closed the lid as a legend once said um yeah that doesn't work that
doesn't work you should
be uh all right i already think i know what my advice for you is going to be
you know as a non-professional
um all right this with the combination of my girlfriend's sudden change of
routine she found
her first job where i don't see her that often really startled me i get these
huge waves of sadness
and loneliness accompanied with the insecurities i never had yeah probably her
suddenly leaving having
leave for work reminded you how your friend suddenly wasn't there anymore um
this is becoming an issue
since i'm really into communicating feelings slash problems with my lady but
this time it feels weird
i seem parentheses and am emotionally weak vulnerable and insecure literally
the top three things a woman
don't want you to be um
yeah well that's the all that's the top three things the other person in the
conversation doesn't want to
deal with on a daily basis because it's a lot so and that's what you have
therapists for
is they can actually take that on and if you go into a therapist i think it eases
the tension in your
relationship because um you're talking to a professional so you start moving in
the right direction
and then when you talk to your significant other
they know that you're working on yourself and then you're not just dumping your
day on them
which can be exhausting
anyway um it's not the first time i experienced these feelings but i always
could manage to put a happy face put on a happy face and say
that everything is all right doesn't seem to be the case this time
it's not a job to fix me nor wait for me
i wasn't like this 99% relationship i was the happy funny dude
who she could always count on now i just feel like a man child what do i do
i've talked about it she tries to understand and support me but i can't stop
having the
unavoidable feeling of the pressure that if i don't get my shit straight fast i
may lose her
um thank you for making my car ride something to look forward to with your
podcast all the best to
you and your family can't wait for your next special english is my third
language sorry for any trouble
all right dude you speak three languages all right you're a funny dude you got
a great girlfriend
okay just go get some therapy and stop worrying about losing her all right if
she takes off that's her
fucking issue it's not your issue um and if she takes off that'll be sad you go
through that sadness
and eventually the right one comes along and they don't leave
all right and if she's the right one she won't leave but right now if i was you
just work on yourself
and um
you know talk that shit out cry it out do whatever you got to do
you know there's a lot of stuff out there about mushroom therapy uh looking at
i've never done that but uh
you know
i've i've heard a lot of good things about that it's good for ptsd
and trying to work your shit out so you actually get to
live a happy life because
why should you be miserable
because of that horrible thing somebody else did to your friend
and that's the thing about when somebody does something like that it doesn't
just obviously affect the
person that they attacked it's it's the ripple effect and it can literally
affect how you are in a
relationship how you're going to be as a father and a husband and then for
generations people deal with these
these issues um it's sort of the the blowback
or whatever um of whatever happened so i hope you're able to work through that
shit
and as always go to a professional
i appreciate you writing it
not that i was giving you shit
okay so don't don't fucking get down in the dumps because of what i just said
there
all right
hope i didn't snip the wrong wire there at the end i feel like it was in an
action movie
all right
what do we got here oh new segment idea
Thank you.