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Um, so I just heard your comment about co-parenting and I know some people who
are co-parenting
now or, or kind of just taking the parenting life as if it's just, oh, it's
easy.
If it works out, it works out.
If it doesn't, it doesn't, you know, and that's not how the child sees it.
I've seen, I work with kids actually, I'm a speech therapist and I work with
children
and I deal with those kids every day where co-parenting just isn't working out
and it
really isn't working out for the child.
Make sure you have a strong foundation in that relationship.
Otherwise it is just, it can be detrimental for you.
Yes, but incredibly detrimental for that child, especially because when we're
babies and born
into this world, the only thing we know is our parents.
That's, that's where we find out what love is.
And if we don't see it from the co-parenting, then do we really know what kind
of love we
deserve or what kind of love we should get?
Onward, Theo.
Gang, gang.
Gang, gang.
Sarah, I appreciate that.
You know, that's a good, that's a really interesting thought.
Yeah, because if you're just co-parents and the children, now you could still
show the
child some love.
The children will feel love from a male parent and a female parent or, but, I
mean, or it
could be, you know, same sex parents.
But I think that, I mean, I feel like you, you're going to get more of a full
batch if
you have that male, female.
I mean, that's, you know, it's been the current, it's been the recipe.
It's been Mother Nature's recipe to have the male, female.
But, yeah, it's like you'll get the, the kid will still get the love from a
parent, a male
parent and a female parent, but they won't get, they won't maybe see the
example of love.
So, they might not see the parents love each other, they may not see, there's
like an element
that they could really miss.
So, yeah, I didn't really thought about that exactly.
That if, yeah, if you live on one street and your kid lives, yeah, if you live
on one street
with your kid and the dad lives across the street or down the way and you guys
are just kind
of, you know, back and forth, it may feel kind of dis, dis, you know, it might
not be continuous
parenting, it may kind of start and stop here and there.
And then also, kids might start to learn, well, love is just, love is just, you
know, you get
love from one person, from a mom or from a dad, and it's not a, also something
you see.
So, if they don't see the love between the parents, so then the kid might, the
kid could
feel like, that, like that, that love isn't a, isn't something that's even in
the world,
you know, because I've never seen an example of it.
It's just, I get love from my mom here, I get love from my dad here, but I don't
see an
example of love between two people that are, you know, like in a marriage or
two people.
Like a man and a woman that love each other, so then the kid might grow up and
not really
feel an attraction to anybody.
They might be fully asexual.
Them asexers.
So, that's interesting, you know, I appreciate you sharing that.
Thanks for calling in, Sarah.
And look, once again, thanks for, you know, sharing that story two episodes ago
about dropping
that HJ on your husband back in the day while your dad was driving y'all around,
man.
And there's, I mean, that, that episode really, I think, took us all to a
beautiful place
and time that, that you can only exist in as a child, you know, and as a first
time when
you get that first touch.
Let's, let's take another call that came in here.
Here we go.
Hey, Theo, this is Vivian from Los Angeles.
Hey, Vivian from LA.
Thank you for calling in.
Onward.
I was listening to last week's episode and I thought I'd share a story.
My mom and dad were really young when they had me.
My mom was 19.
Oh, yeah.
That's beautiful.
My dad was a couple years older.
Oh, yeah.
So, he's trying to be wild like that with the young ladies.
I've done it.
I feel it.
Onward.
They never got married.
For some time, I was really young and they lived apart from each other and, you
know,
talked me back and forth between them.
But once I actually got into elementary school, they decided to move in
together and become
roommates in Chicago.
Nothing romantic or anything like that.
They just wanted, you know, to co-parent together in the same household.
And, honestly, it was my favorite time of my childhood.
So, yeah.
If any single parents are considering co-parenting in the same household, I
could say from my experience,
it was really, really good for me.
And, actually, I just kind of miss it.
But, yeah.
Gang, gang.
Thank you for calling in.
Let me look up really quick the definition of co-parenting just so I'm
operating on a clean
co-parenting.
Share the duties of parenting, especially of a separated or unmarried couple.
So, basically, it is people.
Co-parenting, sometimes called joint parenting or shared parenting, is the
experience of raising
children as a single parent when separation or divorce occurs.
However, placing the sole focus on your children can be a great way of helping
to make co-parenting
a positive experience.
So, it's where both, where the parents are single, but they're both raising the
child.
So, that could be in a couple of ways where, you know, you guys are, you know,
just, you
guys are divorced.
It could be that you guys are, like this situation, roommates.
So, obviously, there is something special that happens when, as a child, then,
from your perception, when both
your parents are in the same place.
And, you know what?
I could really imagine that.
It's like, because with parents, you can play off, you can play one off of the
other.
It's fun to see them interact.
You know, they're like this.
When you're a kid, your parents are like this weird comedy duo.
Sometimes, it's just cruising around the house, just trying to take away your
privileges.
So, it's really interesting to have, I guess, to get to see them at the same
time interact
with each other.
It could be kind of lonesome if you just go to your dad's house and he's just
being, you
know, kind of sad or something or looking up escorts and are just being like a
nice guy.
Or, you go to your mom's house and she's just kind of being sad or buying these
crazy, you
know, high-powered sexual toys.
You know, these real, you know, these crotch, you know, damn, John Deere is
making things
for women's crotches now.
And, it is just, good God.
I mean, they got some things that run on gas-powered.
You got to, you know, you got to, dang, you know, you got to float the choke a
little
bit before you can even get that thing to start up.
And so, that's really, I don't know what kind of, I don't know what's going on.
So, yeah, I think seeing those parents, getting to see your parents kind of
give each other
a wet willy or tickle each other or, you know, or try on scarves or different
things like
that, there's going to be something special there.
You're having that moment where you're, you know, maybe playing hide and go
seek and both
your parents are there to play with you.
You know, there is something about having them in the same house.
So, now, maybe if your parents, like you said, your parents just happen to live
together,
they weren't married, but they lived in the same house.
So, maybe co-parenting is more effective if the parents are living in the same
home, even
if they're not married, but they're there together at the same time, which I
could imagine because
from what I hear, there's a lot of like something that happens with like a nesting,
you know,
where it feels like you're in a nest, in a safe place where you can grow.
You know, your mom is there to nurture you.
Your father is there to take care of and provide.
And it feels probably very natural to us because a lot of species do it.
You know, you see this show, they got a thing called, uh, what is it?
Penguin?
I don't know, Polar Express or something.
Maybe it's like about a bunch of penguins that's on the nature show.
They have a bunch of penguins and these motherfuckers, dude, these guys, they're
penguins.
I don't know if you know what penguins are.
They're basically, they're kind of, they act like, kind of like little bitches.
I mean, they don't, you know, they kind of short with people, you know, they
always like
just, you know, they don't even really, you know, they just sitting over there
giving you
that, uh, who's that guy?
Um, that slumber J arm.
What's your boy?
He was, he could barely point at the oil.
Uh, John McCain, you know, he got that low hitter, you know, he just got that.
I mean, it's very, very, you know, he got that half mast, baby.
You know, and you know, they, that's how they raise their arm or little penguins.
They don't do much.
The guys all kind of huddle around and then the women, they get pissed and they
jump off
of the mountain and go get a belly of fish.
And then they come back, one of them vomits into the child and then the other
one goes out.
But I think as the child to see your parents just doing that shift that, you
know, that
teamwork, that tandem, you realize, I bet you learn a lot about, you know, what
it takes
as a team, as a tandem to make it work.
You know, my parents, I remember my dad liked to sleep in his car at the park
and he would
sometimes drink too much and he would just stay outside and just sleep in his
car in front
of the house and he used to have a lot of cups of like different Mardi Gras
doubloons from
the parade and, uh, and he would just throw them out of his car when he was
driving, like
kind of like he was his own little parade a little bit.
Um, I mean, he was also 80 years old at this point or, you know, 78 or
something, but, but
yeah, sometimes he would get a little bit of free champagne because one of his
friends worked
at the champagne distillery and he would drive over old champagne and my dad, I
know, would
sit out on the porch sometimes and, you know, chug down a half a bottle of old
champagne and
I would be out there and he would let me smell his breath because I liked the
way that the,
uh, that the champagne smelled.
But then I think it's just fun as a kid to have both of the parents around.
It's something real.
I mean, Jesus, I think just, you know, I mean, there's enough kids already that
are raised
by single parents.
It's just a little hectic.
It's not the same vibe, but maybe that's where we're headed.
And if we are headed there as a species, because we're such in this me
generation and,
you know, myself and, and, you know, a lot of us are there not even by choice.
It's like, you know, social media really puts us in our own world and our own
perceptions.
And, you know, we have our own Facebook page.
We have our own, uh, IG.
We have our own Snapchats.
We have our own, whatever it is, TikToks or whatever.
It's all our own personal things that it, you know, we start to look at our, it
just as our
lives, as our world, just as ourselves.
It's just, uh, it's just me.
It's just me.
Um, so if that's where we're headed as people, then, then, then co-parenting
might be the
only viable possibility.
Because if your parents aren't going to live together, they're not going to
stay married
or they don't want to be married.
Um, then at least if they can live together in an environment where they can
raise a child.
So, I don't know, I'm thinking a lot about that kind of stuff just today for
some reason.
Uh, fuck, man, I'm fucking tired.
You ever sleep a lot and you're tired?
You're like, dang, dude, what was I doing in my dream?
Was I running a lot or something?
Uh, but thank you for calling in.
You know, maybe there'll be a turn where people start to, you know, really make
good choices
about relationships and you see a lot more kids getting raised in the nest.
And, uh, and you see just, you know, you'll see more of that vibe a little bit.
But yeah, that hockey puck kind of style of child raising, I don't know, you
know, I've
never done it, but I don't know what it's, I don't know if it's super healthy,
I don't
know.
And then sometimes you don't know, sometimes some kids is just made out of, you
know, fish
and snails and puppy dog pails, you know, or whatever, you know, cinnamon and
spice and
nothing nice or whatever.
You got a kid who's got fucking, you know, made out of 70 grams of damn nutmeg
in his
neck and he's never going to get it together.
So some of that is just kind of God's plan.
But my family was never really close when I was growing up.
So it's kind of, I feel like we've always almost looked at each other as these
separate
entities than we have as a group.
And actually, even to go back to the co-parenting stuff, you know, I feel like
in some ways I've
really struggled because of that.
You know, I remember I only saw my father kiss my mother one time and it was on
the top
of her head during, it was her birthday.
And she was pissed off about it, kind of.
You know, and he just, they'd each been having, you know, they'd had a little
bit of that champagne
that guy had dropped some off.
And my dad always said he bought it, but, you know, him and the guy, we'd hear
him fight
about the prices of the champagne and shit on the porch.
And the shit was free.
So my dad's like, you getting, you know, we all know this is you, you know, old
stale
champagne.
So, but anyway, he brought in a bottle for my mom's birthday and then he kissed
from the
top of the head.
And I just remember seeing my mom just be disappointed and, and I was already
such an
aware kid.
I'm not saying that that damaged me or changed my life or anything.
You know, I was already predestined to have a level of, I think, awareness as a
child that
I was going to be highly sensitive.
But, you know, but to go back to just a previous, like, you know, we, my family
didn't build
up those connections.
I didn't really have an understanding of relationships.
You know, my father slept on the couch always.
I never saw him in my, I didn't even know that they had a room together.
You know, I didn't even understand it.
So, you know, I think I definitely picked up on that energy.
You know, I don't know if I could ever share a room with a woman.
I've, you know, he says, talk about that sometimes.
If I ever got a house or something, I would have to get maybe a different room
for my wife
or a separate house.
I know that sounds crazy, man, but that's just, you know, I don't know.
And maybe I can defeat that over time, but man, it just, there's something that's,
you
know, I don't know if I was out there and I, you know, I remember on Christmas,
I would
go out there and my dad would be on the couch all the time and it was just kind
of weird.
And, but I don't know, as a young man, as a young kid, if you go out, you know,
I remember
feeling sorry for my dad.
I felt bad for him.
And I remember like my mom was in this closed off space at the other end of the
house.
It wasn't really closed off, but there was like a couple doors, you know, that
usually
at night I think were closed.
And so I could, I could go knock or something on him, but my dad was there.
He was accessible.
He was on the couch.
And so, so I would, you know, end up seeing him and he was kind of awkward and
uncomfortable
maybe.
And also older and probably asleep and smelling like champagne.
And, and so my mom always felt closed off to me.
She felt far away.
I think when I was a kid, um, and my dad probably felt rejected or emasculated
or let down.
And those energies I think do float around in the air.
They float around in the air and they land in a child.
Sometimes in ways we don't know in places we don't know and they land in a
child.
Um, and I, look, I'm just kind of guesstimating, trying to just go through my
own, you know,
my own history, like searching my browser history of my own brain and feelings.
But, but so we didn't have that connection is what I'm saying.
Uh, we didn't have a lot of those connections.
Me and my sisters, you know, then I, you know, my dad left and then he passed
away.
I went to live with friends at 14.
We never, we're always separate entities.
So if they were to be upset about things, I think they probably learn more
about me through this.
Um, and sometimes I think the only reason I even do this podcast is just kind
of,
you know, in this real far fetched circle is so, you know, so, um,
maybe just so my mother will know who I am a little bit or something.
I don't know.
That might sound crazy, but, uh, so sometimes I hope that she listens, you know,
but I don't know if she and I are at the communication level where she would
ever,
you know, she'll say sometimes I saw some of your podcasts or I saw a clip, but
I don't know if she,
you know, I don't know.
I mean, sometimes I feel like, I mean, I've said it before that most of my life
is just a debt,
has been just a desperate, just, just miscellaneous, just errant and confused
attempt
to try and connect with my mother probably.
And not even an attempt that I'm always conscious of.
Sometimes an attempt that's just, you know, just like somebody throwing just
rocks into like a lake at night or something.
And they're also, or into the ocean and they're also sleepwalking, so they don't
even know they're doing it.
You know, it's interesting when I, if I really, I wish I could really had a
good chart of everything I've ever done in my life or,
cause I, I bet there's a lot of, uh,
just miscellaneous patterns that I've had that have just been attempts to
connect, um,
with a mother or with someone, with a parent, with someone, or with myself even
maybe.
You know, I'm, I'm not sure.
But sometimes I wonder if, uh,
sometimes I wonder if all of us, what we do
is just some reflection or some
inverse.
Our behaviors are just an inverse
of
if our behaviors are just an inverse of like unsettled
emotional debts that we have
with our parents or with our childhood or with
like if everything we do is just this kind of mummy, kind of
like this zombie walk to
fill these couple little
things that were never
filled, you know.
These couple
needs as a child.
I don't know, but that's why, I mean, I do think that the parenting is very
important.
You know, cause you're just gonna give the kid the best shot.
So you can't have the kid fucking Uber in two hours to go meet the other one.
I think that's a little tricky or it's just not ideal.
But then also, that's a lot of where we are these days.
That's a lot of where we are.
But moving forward, we can do it different.
So if our parents were far away from each other moving forward, it's like,
well, am I able to be able to have an adult conversation with this man or this
woman and say,
hey, you know, I know we have this kid, you know, we disagree with, you know,
we're not in love.
But can we be, can we cohabitate or be in the same space or close enough to
each other where we can have an effect on this kid's life easily?
You know, but just because it could be something that's really going to start
popping off.
Or it could not be.
You know, we don't know which way the tide's always going to go.
Sometimes the moon will get tricky and kind of do a different pull on the water.
Wow, you know what's crazy is my sister can't even read.
But what does it have to do with us right now?
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Theo Von on Co-Parenting

Um, so I just heard your comment about co-parenting and I know some people who
are co-parenting
now or, or kind of just taking the parenting life as if it's just, oh, it's
easy.
If it works out, it works out.
If it doesn't, it doesn't, you know, and that's not how the child sees it.
I've seen, I work with kids actually, I'm a speech therapist and I work with
children
and I deal with those kids every day where co-parenting just isn't working out
and it
really isn't working out for the child.
Make sure you have a strong foundation in that relationship.
Otherwise it is just, it can be detrimental for you.
Yes, but incredibly detrimental for that child, especially because when we're
babies and born
into this world, the only thing we know is our parents.
That's, that's where we find out what love is.
And if we don't see it from the co-parenting, then do we really know what kind
of love we
deserve or what kind of love we should get?
Onward, Theo.
Gang, gang.
Gang, gang.
Sarah, I appreciate that.
You know, that's a good, that's a really interesting thought.
Yeah, because if you're just co-parents and the children, now you could still
show the
child some love.
The children will feel love from a male parent and a female parent or, but, I
mean, or it
could be, you know, same sex parents.
But I think that, I mean, I feel like you, you're going to get more of a full
batch if
you have that male, female.
I mean, that's, you know, it's been the current, it's been the recipe.
It's been Mother Nature's recipe to have the male, female.
But, yeah, it's like you'll get the, the kid will still get the love from a
parent, a male
parent and a female parent, but they won't get, they won't maybe see the
example of love.
So, they might not see the parents love each other, they may not see, there's
like an element
that they could really miss.
So, yeah, I didn't really thought about that exactly.
That if, yeah, if you live on one street and your kid lives, yeah, if you live
on one street
with your kid and the dad lives across the street or down the way and you guys
are just kind
of, you know, back and forth, it may feel kind of dis, dis, you know, it might
not be continuous
parenting, it may kind of start and stop here and there.
And then also, kids might start to learn, well, love is just, love is just, you
know, you get
love from one person, from a mom or from a dad, and it's not a, also something
you see.
So, if they don't see the love between the parents, so then the kid might, the
kid could
feel like, that, like that, that love isn't a, isn't something that's even in
the world,
you know, because I've never seen an example of it.
It's just, I get love from my mom here, I get love from my dad here, but I don't
see an
example of love between two people that are, you know, like in a marriage or
two people.
Like a man and a woman that love each other, so then the kid might grow up and
not really
feel an attraction to anybody.
They might be fully asexual.
Them asexers.
So, that's interesting, you know, I appreciate you sharing that.
Thanks for calling in, Sarah.
And look, once again, thanks for, you know, sharing that story two episodes ago
about dropping
that HJ on your husband back in the day while your dad was driving y'all around,
man.
And there's, I mean, that, that episode really, I think, took us all to a
beautiful place
and time that, that you can only exist in as a child, you know, and as a first
time when
you get that first touch.
Let's, let's take another call that came in here.
Here we go.
Hey, Theo, this is Vivian from Los Angeles.
Hey, Vivian from LA.
Thank you for calling in.
Onward.
I was listening to last week's episode and I thought I'd share a story.
My mom and dad were really young when they had me.
My mom was 19.
Oh, yeah.
That's beautiful.
My dad was a couple years older.
Oh, yeah.
So, he's trying to be wild like that with the young ladies.
I've done it.
I feel it.
Onward.
They never got married.
For some time, I was really young and they lived apart from each other and, you
know,
talked me back and forth between them.
But once I actually got into elementary school, they decided to move in
together and become
roommates in Chicago.
Nothing romantic or anything like that.
They just wanted, you know, to co-parent together in the same household.
And, honestly, it was my favorite time of my childhood.
So, yeah.
If any single parents are considering co-parenting in the same household, I
could say from my experience,
it was really, really good for me.
And, actually, I just kind of miss it.
But, yeah.
Gang, gang.
Thank you for calling in.
Let me look up really quick the definition of co-parenting just so I'm
operating on a clean
co-parenting.
Share the duties of parenting, especially of a separated or unmarried couple.
So, basically, it is people.
Co-parenting, sometimes called joint parenting or shared parenting, is the
experience of raising
children as a single parent when separation or divorce occurs.
However, placing the sole focus on your children can be a great way of helping
to make co-parenting
a positive experience.
So, it's where both, where the parents are single, but they're both raising the
child.
So, that could be in a couple of ways where, you know, you guys are, you know,
just, you
guys are divorced.
It could be that you guys are, like this situation, roommates.
So, obviously, there is something special that happens when, as a child, then,
from your perception, when both
your parents are in the same place.
And, you know what?
I could really imagine that.
It's like, because with parents, you can play off, you can play one off of the
other.
It's fun to see them interact.
You know, they're like this.
When you're a kid, your parents are like this weird comedy duo.
Sometimes, it's just cruising around the house, just trying to take away your
privileges.
So, it's really interesting to have, I guess, to get to see them at the same
time interact
with each other.
It could be kind of lonesome if you just go to your dad's house and he's just
being, you
know, kind of sad or something or looking up escorts and are just being like a
nice guy.
Or, you go to your mom's house and she's just kind of being sad or buying these
crazy, you
know, high-powered sexual toys.
You know, these real, you know, these crotch, you know, damn, John Deere is
making things
for women's crotches now.
And, it is just, good God.
I mean, they got some things that run on gas-powered.
You got to, you know, you got to, dang, you know, you got to float the choke a
little
bit before you can even get that thing to start up.
And so, that's really, I don't know what kind of, I don't know what's going on.
So, yeah, I think seeing those parents, getting to see your parents kind of
give each other
a wet willy or tickle each other or, you know, or try on scarves or different
things like
that, there's going to be something special there.
You're having that moment where you're, you know, maybe playing hide and go
seek and both
your parents are there to play with you.
You know, there is something about having them in the same house.
So, now, maybe if your parents, like you said, your parents just happen to live
together,
they weren't married, but they lived in the same house.
So, maybe co-parenting is more effective if the parents are living in the same
home, even
if they're not married, but they're there together at the same time, which I
could imagine because
from what I hear, there's a lot of like something that happens with like a nesting,
you know,
where it feels like you're in a nest, in a safe place where you can grow.
You know, your mom is there to nurture you.
Your father is there to take care of and provide.
And it feels probably very natural to us because a lot of species do it.
You know, you see this show, they got a thing called, uh, what is it?
Penguin?
I don't know, Polar Express or something.
Maybe it's like about a bunch of penguins that's on the nature show.
They have a bunch of penguins and these motherfuckers, dude, these guys, they're
penguins.
I don't know if you know what penguins are.
They're basically, they're kind of, they act like, kind of like little bitches.
I mean, they don't, you know, they kind of short with people, you know, they
always like
just, you know, they don't even really, you know, they just sitting over there
giving you
that, uh, who's that guy?
Um, that slumber J arm.
What's your boy?
He was, he could barely point at the oil.
Uh, John McCain, you know, he got that low hitter, you know, he just got that.
I mean, it's very, very, you know, he got that half mast, baby.
You know, and you know, they, that's how they raise their arm or little penguins.
They don't do much.
The guys all kind of huddle around and then the women, they get pissed and they
jump off
of the mountain and go get a belly of fish.
And then they come back, one of them vomits into the child and then the other
one goes out.
But I think as the child to see your parents just doing that shift that, you
know, that
teamwork, that tandem, you realize, I bet you learn a lot about, you know, what
it takes
as a team, as a tandem to make it work.
You know, my parents, I remember my dad liked to sleep in his car at the park
and he would
sometimes drink too much and he would just stay outside and just sleep in his
car in front
of the house and he used to have a lot of cups of like different Mardi Gras
doubloons from
the parade and, uh, and he would just throw them out of his car when he was
driving, like
kind of like he was his own little parade a little bit.
Um, I mean, he was also 80 years old at this point or, you know, 78 or
something, but, but
yeah, sometimes he would get a little bit of free champagne because one of his
friends worked
at the champagne distillery and he would drive over old champagne and my dad, I
know, would
sit out on the porch sometimes and, you know, chug down a half a bottle of old
champagne and
I would be out there and he would let me smell his breath because I liked the
way that the,
uh, that the champagne smelled.
But then I think it's just fun as a kid to have both of the parents around.
It's something real.
I mean, Jesus, I think just, you know, I mean, there's enough kids already that
are raised
by single parents.
It's just a little hectic.
It's not the same vibe, but maybe that's where we're headed.
And if we are headed there as a species, because we're such in this me
generation and,
you know, myself and, and, you know, a lot of us are there not even by choice.
It's like, you know, social media really puts us in our own world and our own
perceptions.
And, you know, we have our own Facebook page.
We have our own, uh, IG.
We have our own Snapchats.
We have our own, whatever it is, TikToks or whatever.
It's all our own personal things that it, you know, we start to look at our, it
just as our
lives, as our world, just as ourselves.
It's just, uh, it's just me.
It's just me.
Um, so if that's where we're headed as people, then, then, then co-parenting
might be the
only viable possibility.
Because if your parents aren't going to live together, they're not going to
stay married
or they don't want to be married.
Um, then at least if they can live together in an environment where they can
raise a child.
So, I don't know, I'm thinking a lot about that kind of stuff just today for
some reason.
Uh, fuck, man, I'm fucking tired.
You ever sleep a lot and you're tired?
You're like, dang, dude, what was I doing in my dream?
Was I running a lot or something?
Uh, but thank you for calling in.
You know, maybe there'll be a turn where people start to, you know, really make
good choices
about relationships and you see a lot more kids getting raised in the nest.
And, uh, and you see just, you know, you'll see more of that vibe a little bit.
But yeah, that hockey puck kind of style of child raising, I don't know, you
know, I've
never done it, but I don't know what it's, I don't know if it's super healthy,
I don't
know