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Watch the stand-up comedy video 'Rumspringa Explained: Young Amish Man Talks About His Journey From Home' from Theo Von Clips on Comedy Buff. Published 2025-10-06. Transcript available.

You mentioned being on Rumspringer, right?
Yeah.
So you're on Rumspringer right now?
Right now, yep.
Okay.
How does Rumspringer start?
How long does it last?
Who gets to go on it?
Okay, so pretty much everyone goes on it.
Now, I've heard of where, like, families, like, didn't let their kids go on it.
But, like, that has happened.
But, like, sometimes when that happens, like, the kid just leaves and, like, he
becomes English.
Oh, because they feel they can't, they're not allowed to, that the family's not
following the rules?
No, everyone can go on Rumspringer, like, Rumspringer.
Everyone does it.
Every single, now, every single, like, every single community that does Rumspringer,
like, they usually go on.
Because what happens is around 16, 16 and a half, you go, you join Rumspringer,
which we call the Yuma.
The Yuma?
Yeah, which basically means the, what was it?
Like, young, young people.
The youth?
The youth?
Yeah, youth.
There you go.
Okay.
That'd be a better word for it.
So, you're picking up.
The Yuma.
Yep, the Yuma.
Makes sense.
Yep.
So, that's when you go to, like, sing-ins after church.
Now, I never, I never really, really went to one, because when I went on Rumspringer,
the church was kind of already going down.
Because our church kind of, it's kind of split up now.
Actually, our bishop kind of, he kind of booked out, he kind of decked out.
No.
Yeah, so right now, there's, there's, we still have church, but it's, like,
only, like, an hour, like, hour and a half, and, and, so there's a lot of Amish
around us.
There's, there's still Amish, and then, but they're not a member of the church
anymore, anymore, because when it opens, in the Swartzen Troop Amish.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, when what opens?
Like, so when the, when the church doesn't come to agreement for, like, for a
while, and then it's kind of, it's kind of like a rule that they have to open
the doors, and then whoever wants to go can, you know, get out of the, no
longer be a member of the church and doesn't require to have to follow the
rules.
That's only, that's only when you're, like, joined to church already.
Tell me about this.
When you go to Rumspringer, how do you go?
Is there a day that you go?
What happens?
You hit what age, and how does it start?
It's kind of just, it's kind of, it's kind of spontaneous when it happens.
You're, like, roughly, roughly 16 and a half when it happens, and your parents
are, like, like, you can go, and then you kind of just go, like, one night.
Do they sit you down at dinner and tell you?
Is it, like, an announcement at school?
Is it at church?
How does it happen that they say, we're going to allow you to go to Rumspringer?
It's not, it's not really an announcement.
It's just kind of, like, hey, you can, you can go there, and then you probably
have a couple rules, you know, don't do this, don't do that, but you're
probably going to do it anyway.
Really?
Yeah.
And so, is there a moment, an actual day that you leave?
Like, do you say goodbye?
Oh, no, no.
So, when Rumspringer happens, and you go to the Yoma, like, you still live at
home and stuff, you're still Amish, and then you just do stuff on the weekends
that you're not supposed to.
When do you go back to your Amish country, though?
Like, when do you go back to your district, to your home?
So, when you're in Rumspringer, you're always at home, so don't, like, the,
like, so what happens if you're in Rumspringer for, like, it's usually around
four to five years.
It always depends.
And then, though, when you get baptized, it's usually when you have a
girlfriend, and then you want to get married.
So, that's the reason you get baptized, is to get married, and then, at the
same time, you're also becoming a member of the church.
Okay, so, before, so, you hit about 16 or something, and your parents say that
you can go now.
Yep.
And that means on the weekends, you can go do what you want?
Yeah, kind of.
And if they don't hear too much about it, you're fine.
Then you're doing fine.
Yeah, because sometimes you can be like, hey, you can't go this time.
Okay.
Yeah.
And now, do some people choose to stay out in Rumspringer and not come back to
the church?
Do you have that option, or that's not an option?
Yeah, where, like, people, like, leave and become ex-Amish, yeah.
And that can happen?
Yeah.
And then when, like, Rumspring ends, it's roughly around 20 to 21, that's
usually when people get married.
Or sometimes, you know, like, all of a sudden, they realize they have a kid.
And then, so, that's not really, not really a good idea, like, to have a kid
before you're married.
So, like, they either get quickly married, or, like, my cousin, like, his, my
cousin, Frank, like, he...
He was Amish?
No, like, he, like, his parents, like, they realized they had him when they
were still, like, on Rumspring and Amish, so they just left.
Wow.
Yeah.
So, it...
So, your cousin, his parents were both on Rumspringer.
Yep.
Both Amish.
Yep.
They, one of them got pregnant, the woman.
The woman, yeah.
And then they realized at that point that they had to leave.
Would they have been welcomed back into the church or no?
Uh, like, so, what happens if that happens, either you leave, or you, like,
almost become married right away.
Because that has happened a couple times.
That actually happened for my parents, so I had to quickly get married.
Okay, so you have to make that quick choice.
Yeah.
Now, if you decide to leave, are you shunned?
Are you allowed to come back?
What is it like?
Like, once you allow, once you decide to leave.
So, if you leave and you're already a member of the church, you'll get, you'll
get shunned from it.
And then, if you're not a member, like, on Rumspring, if you leave, it varies
on the parents a lot.
Like, on my dad's side, like, they, they wouldn't really, for the longest time,
they wouldn't really be happy or wouldn't really talk to their kids when they
came, came and visit.
They once had an ex-Amish.
On my mom's side, they were like that for a little bit, too, like, in the first.
But, on my mom's side now, when the, when the ex-Amish kids come back, they're,
they're, like, now 40 and stuff, 30, 40, and maybe even older.
Like, they come back, they're welcome, like, all that stuff.
But, my, on my dad's side, they're, they're still a little bit, a little bit iffy,
but they're way better than they were.
I see.
So, they're coming around a little bit more than they used to.
Yeah.
But, probably, in your grandfather's generation, if somebody was shunned, they
might not talk to them?
Yep, that's how it is.
When you get, when you get shunned, you're not supposed to, well, you can talk
to them, but you're not supposed to.
To, like, help them out in any way.
Like, you can't accept money from them, and you can't, you can't, you're not
supposed to get a ride from them, too.
A ride.
Like, uh, like, let's say they were driving, the ones that left, they were
driving and stuff, you're not supposed to, like, like, ride with them.
Oh, yeah.
If they can't even stay on the path to heaven, how are they going to keep you
on a path when they're trying to take you somewhere?
Yeah.
They're going to, like, take you off the road or something.
They sure are.
Yeah.
They're, yeah, literally do.
They're literally going to take you off the road.
What has your Rumspringer experience been like?
Uh, it's, it's been crazy.
I've done, like, the first, like, year and a half, well, I didn't do too much
because I wasn't 18 yet, but, like, this summer, I've done so many crazy things.
Actually, last summer, I got to drive, like, a Corvette.
That was crazy.
Like, these two girls, like, they let me drive their Corvette.
A lot of fun.
Oh, yeah.
Where'd you meet them?
Uh, through my, my uncle.
My ex-Amish uncle, Simon.
I met him through them.
Yeah.
And, dude, I actually was at their wedding, the, like, uh, the one with the
black hair.
I was at their, like, her and her husband's wedding.
It was pretty cool.
Yeah.
And, yeah, so, I got to drive a Corvette.
That thing was really fast, too.
Like, you stomp on the pedal a little bit.
It was like a horse with, like, like, some special oats or something.
Oh, yeah.
Like, put, like, put some Celsius in their water.
Oh, yeah, that thing's been eating, uh, diesel-dipped carrots right there, homie.
Yeah.
That horse has got it.
Oh, that's dope.
Yeah, and they were, like, they were, like, well, I think it was overcrowded
because there's
only, like, two seats and then, and then the, she's, like, sitting in the
middle and stuff.
Hey, that's fine, though, dude.
You got to have at least one chick hanging out of a Corvette, dude.
That's Rum Springer.
Yeah, that is Rum Springer.
And then, we, we, we, uh, they wanted to get a couple videos because they
thought it was
pretty cool.
Oh, it's amazing, bro.
Yeah.
It's great to see you out there just trying some different things.
Yeah.
What other things did you try that you found that you liked and didn't like out
there?
Uh, uh, what was it?
Oh, yeah.
I also got, the other, the other, uh, weekend I got to, went to, like, it was Eau
Claire,
Wisconsin.
There was, like, uh, like an air show where they had, like, the Blue Angel
airplanes, had
all kinds of airplanes.
Nice.
And then, they also, like, you had to pay a little bit.
Well, it was actually quite a bit.
It was, like, $200 for, like, one helicopter, right?
And I was, like, you know, this might be, like, a week or two of wage, just,
like, of me
working, but, like, I don't want to go in a helicopter, right?
So, I was kind of scared to, like, hold my phone out because, uh, because, like,
the
helicopters are open and stuff.
Like, what happens if you drop it and stuff?
But it was really smooth, too.
And when we took off, like, we took off and stuff, it was, like, it was really
crazy.
It felt like we were, like, I felt like I was on a, like, on a piece of plywood
and I just
started going up.
It was, like, it was crazy.
And it felt really crazy.
That's actually Attlee right there.
Oh, nice, brother.
Yeah, he's still, he's still Amish at home.
He bust his, like, bust his, like, cut his hair and stuff.
So.
Wow, that's exceptional, bro.
You got out there.
You just felt like a bird, huh?
I did feel like a bird.
And this guy, I think he, I think he gave a little bit of a longer ride because
we're
Amish and stuff and he, we, like, we went sideways on the, we went sideways on
the, like, on the,
above the lake and stuff because, like, if you hit water really far off, it's,
like, it's
pretty much, like, concrete, I think.
Yeah.
That we went sideways and it almost felt like I was falling off.
But I had my trusty seatbelt on and stuff.
So, we were, we were pretty good.
So, that was, that was a crazy ride.
But it was actually kind of smooth, you know, uh, I was actually more scared
when I was,
like, a couple weeks later, I was, like, probably, like, a month later.
It was right after I went to your concert.
Your concert was, like, really crazy.
Oh, did you have fun?
Could you understand a lot of the material?
I did, yeah.
Like, some of it I didn't understand.
Like, the ball guy was there.
The guy that, his parents are, like, from the Middle East was there.
They were pretty cool.
And then you came out and then, dude, I thought it was really funny.
This was actually, you know, before the show, I was jamming out.
I was with my cousin, Frank.
And he was, like, we were, I was just jamming out through the music.
Yeah, because people don't understand.
This is where we met.
We met after a show.
Yeah.
And I was, like, dude, we've been trying to have an Amish person on.
And then here, God just put us right together, brother.
Yeah, God is great.
He works, he works in mysterious ways, it seems like.
He's the magician, man.
Yeah.
I know you had mentioned before that your parents said there's some stuff not
to do during
Rump Spring.
Like, what was some of that?
Uh, they didn't, they didn't really say too much.
But they, they tell me, like, when, uh, when I do something that, uh, that they
think,
didn't think was, uh, how do I say it?
It was, like, like, probably not the best thing to do.
Like appropriate?
Yeah.
Like, not, probably, like, because sometimes I do wild stuff, you know, like,
go on the
Walmart, right, and a scooter.
Yeah.
Because that came around, and.
But, I mean, did they have advice against, like, sex, drugs, things like that?
Uh, no, not, like, any, any, like, any sex stuff.
That, that doesn't get talked about.
You just kind of, you kind of have to do, like, door to explore.
You just kind of have to, you know, go out on the jungle and see, see what
bites.
Damn.
So, yeah.
We went to Walmart.
Oh, something will bite at Walmart, dude.
Yeah.
I was looking at the TVs.
They're, like, a thousand dollars, like.
Crazy.
That's, like, a third of a Bucky.
Yeah.
And a TV doesn't even go anywhere.
It just, like, sits somewhere.
I'd rather just play charades with my buddy, like you guys probably do a lot.
Y'all play charades a lot?
I'm not even quite sure what that is.
Oh, it's where someone, like, you write down some movies or TV.
Oh, shoot, you don't know a lot of movies and TV shows.
Charades, it's like somebody acts something out and you have to guess what they're
acting out.
Like, they impersonate something.
Oh, you, like, pretend.
So, like, let's say I was pretending to be the bishop.
I'd be, like, like, like, my, like, go down here.
Yeah.
Big angry look.
Maybe scratching your beard.
Maybe going like this or something.
Yeah, like this.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah, like, something like that.
No, I've never, I've never played that, but I kind of know what you mean.
Yeah.
What have you decided about Rumspringer and what you're going to do with your
family and the church and stuff?
Have you made any decisions yet?
Like, like, not yet.
Like, I, the final, the final decision will probably be in, like, probably
within, like, two years or so.
Okay.
And then I, it depends if I leave or, you know, join the church and, well,
right now you actually can't really join the church because, like, there's no
bishop.
You can't, you can join other churches that are, like, a little bit of waste in
a different district.
But, like, yeah, it'll probably be, like, two years until I, you know, like,
make my final decision because it's kind of a big decision.
Yeah.
Yeah.
What would be the thing you think that would draw you out of the faith, that
would draw you out of the church and out of the district?
Uh, I would think, like, like, if I wanted to do something, like, something
that would, like, something I'm doing right now, like, this podcast, like,
something worldly and, like, they'll probably come down on me for, like, doing
something.
Like, that, I guess, would drive me away a little bit because, I don't know, it
feels a little bit, like, a little bit restrictive.
But, like, I guess that's the only thing I would think.
But you don't feel like doing this podcast will mess up your opportunity to go
back or leave, huh?
No, I don't think it, I don't think it will.
Okay, good.
I don't want that to happen, man.
No.
I want you to be able to make the best choice for yourself no matter what.
It sounds like a really beautiful community, is it?
Yeah.
It's very beautiful, I'd say.
Yeah.
I want you to be able to make the best choice.

Rumspringa Explained: Young Amish Man Talks About His Journey From Home

You mentioned being on Rumspringer, right?
Yeah.
So you're on Rumspringer right now?
Right now, yep.
Okay.
How does Rumspringer start?
How long does it last?
Who gets to go on it?
Okay, so pretty much everyone goes on it.
Now, I've heard of where, like, families, like, didn't let their kids go on it.
But, like, that has happened.
But, like, sometimes when that happens, like, the kid just leaves and, like, he
becomes English.
Oh, because they feel they can't, they're not allowed to, that the family's not
following the rules?
No, everyone can go on Rumspringer, like, Rumspringer.
Everyone does it.
Every single, now, every single, like, every single community that does Rumspringer,
like, they usually go on.
Because what happens is around 16, 16 and a half, you go, you join Rumspringer,
which we call the Yuma.
The Yuma?
Yeah, which basically means the, what was it?
Like, young, young people.
The youth?
The youth?
Yeah, youth.
There you go.
Okay.
That'd be a better word for it.
So, you're picking up.
The Yuma.
Yep, the Yuma.
Makes sense.
Yep.
So, that's when you go to, like, sing-ins after church.
Now, I never, I never really, really went to one, because when I went on Rumspringer,
the church was kind of already going down.
Because our church kind of, it's kind of split up now.
Actually, our bishop kind of, he kind of booked out, he kind of decked out.
No.
Yeah, so right now, there's, there's, we still have church, but it's, like,
only, like, an hour, like, hour and a half, and, and, so there's a lot of Amish
around us.
There's, there's still Amish, and then, but they're not a member of the church
anymore, anymore, because when it opens, in the Swartzen Troop Amish.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, when what opens?
Like, so when the, when the church doesn't come to agreement for, like, for a
while, and then it's kind of, it's kind of like a rule that they have to open
the doors, and then whoever wants to go can, you know, get out of the, no
longer be a member of the church and doesn't require to have to follow the
rules.
That's only, that's only when you're, like, joined to church already.
Tell me about this.
When you go to Rumspringer, how do you go?
Is there a day that you go?
What happens?
You hit what age, and how does it start?
It's kind of just, it's kind of, it's kind of spontaneous when it happens.
You're, like, roughly, roughly 16 and a half when it happens, and your parents
are, like, like, you can go, and then you kind of just go, like, one night.
Do they sit you down at dinner and tell you?
Is it, like, an announcement at school?
Is it at church?
How does it happen that they say, we're going to allow you to go to Rumspringer?
It's not, it's not really an announcement.
It's just kind of, like, hey, you can, you can go there, and then you probably
have a couple rules, you know, don't do this, don't do that, but you're
probably going to do it anyway.
Really?
Yeah.
And so, is there a moment, an actual day that you leave?
Like, do you say goodbye?
Oh, no, no.
So, when Rumspringer happens, and you go to the Yoma, like, you still live at
home and stuff, you're still Amish, and then you just do stuff on the weekends
that you're not supposed to.
When do you go back to your Amish country, though?
Like, when do you go back to your district, to your home?
So, when you're in Rumspringer, you're always at home, so don't, like, the,
like, so what happens if you're in Rumspringer for, like, it's usually around
four to five years.
It always depends.
And then, though, when you get baptized, it's usually when you have a
girlfriend, and then you want to get married.
So, that's the reason you get baptized, is to get married, and then, at the
same time, you're also becoming a member of the church.
Okay, so, before, so, you hit about 16 or something, and your parents say that
you can go now.
Yep.
And that means on the weekends, you can go do what you want?
Yeah, kind of.
And if they don't hear too much about it, you're fine.
Then you're doing fine.
Yeah, because sometimes you can be like, hey, you can't go this time.
Okay.
Yeah.
And now, do some people choose to stay out in Rumspringer and not come back to
the church?
Do you have that option, or that's not an option?
Yeah, where, like, people, like, leave and become ex-Amish, yeah.
And that can happen?
Yeah.
And then when, like, Rumspring ends, it's roughly around 20 to 21, that's
usually when people get married.
Or sometimes, you know, like, all of a sudden, they realize they have a kid.
And then, so, that's not really, not really a good idea, like, to have a kid
before you're married.
So, like, they either get quickly married, or, like, my cousin, like, his, my
cousin, Frank, like, he...
He was Amish?
No, like, he, like, his parents, like, they realized they had him when they
were still, like, on Rumspring and Amish, so they just left.
Wow.
Yeah.
So, it...
So, your cousin, his parents were both on Rumspringer.
Yep.
Both Amish.
Yep.
They, one of them got pregnant, the woman.
The woman, yeah.
And then they realized at that point that they had to leave.
Would they have been welcomed back into the church or no?
Uh, like, so, what happens if that happens, either you leave, or you, like,
almost become married right away.
Because that has happened a couple times.
That actually happened for my parents, so I had to quickly get married.
Okay, so you have to make that quick choice.
Yeah.
Now, if you decide to leave, are you shunned?
Are you allowed to come back?
What is it like?
Like, once you allow, once you decide to leave.
So, if you leave and you're already a member of the church, you'll get, you'll
get shunned from it.
And then, if you're not a member, like, on Rumspring, if you leave, it varies
on the parents a lot.
Like, on my dad's side, like, they, they wouldn't really, for the longest time,
they wouldn't really be happy or wouldn't really talk to their kids when they
came, came and visit.
They once had an ex-Amish.
On my mom's side, they were like that for a little bit, too, like, in the first.
But, on my mom's side now, when the, when the ex-Amish kids come back, they're,
they're, like, now 40 and stuff, 30, 40, and maybe even older.
Like, they come back, they're welcome, like, all that stuff.
But, my, on my dad's side, they're, they're still a little bit, a little bit iffy,
but they're way better than they were.
I see.
So, they're coming around a little bit more than they used to.
Yeah.
But, probably, in your grandfather's generation, if somebody was shunned, they
might not talk to them?
Yep, that's how it is.
When you get, when you get shunned, you're not supposed to, well, you can talk
to them, but you're not supposed to.
To, like, help them out in any way.
Like, you can't accept money from them, and you can't, you can't, you're not
supposed to get a ride from them, too.
A ride.
Like, uh, like, let's say they were driving, the ones that left, they were
driving and stuff, you're not supposed to, like, like, ride with them.
Oh, yeah.
If they can't even stay on the path to heaven, how are they going to keep you
on a path when they're trying to take you somewhere?
Yeah.
They're going to, like, take you off the road or something.
They sure are.
Yeah.
They're, yeah, literally do.
They're literally going to take you off the road.
What has your Rumspringer experience been like?
Uh, it's, it's been crazy.
I've done, like, the first, like, year and a half, well, I didn't do too much
because I wasn't 18 yet, but, like, this summer, I've done so many crazy things.
Actually, last summer, I got to drive, like, a Corvette.
That was crazy.
Like, these two girls, like, they let me drive their Corvette.
A lot of fun.
Oh, yeah.
Where'd you meet them?
Uh, through my, my uncle.
My ex-Amish uncle, Simon.
I met him through them.
Yeah.
And, dude, I actually was at their wedding, the, like, uh, the one with the
black hair.
I was at their, like, her and her husband's wedding.
It was pretty cool.
Yeah.
And, yeah, so, I got to drive a Corvette.
That thing was really fast, too.
Like, you stomp on the pedal a little bit.
It was like a horse with, like, like, some special oats or something.
Oh, yeah.
Like, put, like, put some Celsius in their water.
Oh, yeah, that thing's been eating, uh, diesel-dipped carrots right there, homie.
Yeah.
That horse has got it.
Oh, that's dope.
Yeah, and they were, like, they were, like, well, I think it was overcrowded
because there's
only, like, two seats and then, and then the, she's, like, sitting in the
middle and stuff.
Hey, that's fine, though, dude.
You got to have at least one chick hanging out of a Corvette, dude.
That's Rum Springer.
Yeah, that is Rum Springer.
And then, we, we, we, uh, they wanted to get a couple videos because they
thought it was
pretty cool.
Oh, it's amazing, bro.
Yeah.
It's great to see you out there just trying some different things.
Yeah.
What other things did you try that you found that you liked and didn't like out
there?
Uh, uh, what was it?
Oh, yeah.
I also got, the other, the other, uh, weekend I got to, went to, like, it was Eau
Claire,
Wisconsin.
There was, like, uh, like an air show where they had, like, the Blue Angel
airplanes, had
all kinds of airplanes.
Nice.
And then, they also, like, you had to pay a little bit.
Well, it was actually quite a bit.
It was, like, $200 for, like, one helicopter, right?
And I was, like, you know, this might be, like, a week or two of wage, just,
like, of me
working, but, like, I don't want to go in a helicopter, right?
So, I was kind of scared to, like, hold my phone out because, uh, because, like,
the
helicopters are open and stuff.
Like, what happens if you drop it and stuff?
But it was really smooth, too.
And when we took off, like, we took off and stuff, it was, like, it was really
crazy.
It felt like we were, like, I felt like I was on a, like, on a piece of plywood
and I just
started going up.
It was, like, it was crazy.
And it felt really crazy.
That's actually Attlee right there.
Oh, nice, brother.
Yeah, he's still, he's still Amish at home.
He bust his, like, bust his, like, cut his hair and stuff.
So.
Wow, that's exceptional, bro.
You got out there.
You just felt like a bird, huh?
I did feel like a bird.
And this guy, I think he, I think he gave a little bit of a longer ride because
we're
Amish and stuff and he, we, like, we went sideways on the, we went sideways on
the, like, on the,
above the lake and stuff because, like, if you hit water really far off, it's,
like, it's
pretty much, like, concrete, I think.
Yeah.
That we went sideways and it almost felt like I was falling off.
But I had my trusty seatbelt on and stuff.
So, we were, we were pretty good.
So, that was, that was a crazy ride.
But it was actually kind of smooth, you know, uh, I was actually more scared
when I was,
like, a couple weeks later, I was, like, probably, like, a month later.
It was right after I went to your concert.
Your concert was, like, really crazy.
Oh, did you have fun?
Could you understand a lot of the material?
I did, yeah.
Like, some of it I didn't understand.
Like, the ball guy was there.
The guy that, his parents are, like, from the Middle East was there.
They were pretty cool.
And then you came out and then, dude, I thought it was really funny.
This was actually, you know, before the show, I was jamming out.
I was with my cousin, Frank.
And he was, like, we were, I was just jamming out through the music.
Yeah, because people don't understand.
This is where we met.
We met after a show.
Yeah.
And I was, like, dude, we've been trying to have an Amish person on.
And then here, God just put us right together, brother.
Yeah, God is great.
He works, he works in mysterious ways, it seems like.
He's the magician, man.
Yeah.
I know you had mentioned before that your parents said there's some stuff not
to do during
Rump Spring.
Like, what was some of that?
Uh, they didn't, they didn't really say too much.
But they, they tell me, like, when, uh, when I do something that, uh, that